What if love begins
the moment you let go?
The Podcast
Childless, Childfree, or Mother? The History of Why This Question Still Divides Us
The Pleasure Gap: Rethinking Intimacy and Consent, with Betty Martin
Why Trying to Change Your Partner Never Works, with Comedian Paul Gilmartin
Pharmacist On Dangers From Psychedelics: It Isn’t The Drug
Till Stress Do Us Part: How to Heal the #1 Issue in Our Relationship
FDA’s Rejection of MDMA: Rachel Nuwer Explains NYT Controversy
How IFS Changes Love and Communication with Tammy Sollenberger
Welcome Inside Our Actual Relationship (Send Help)
How Ketamine Changed Our Lives — and the Pioneering Science of Dr. John Krystal
From Pretend Monogamy to Real Agreements, with Tammy Nelson
The Open Marriage That Broke the Rules, with Molly Roden Winter
The Blog
The descent into depression…and the way home
Our decent into the bedazzling landscape of the Grand Canyon coincided with another, stranger and far more unnerving descent in my life. This is a story about how I climbed out.
I Want To Be Right, Now
How a comma can revolutionize how you talk. Learn how an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens moves your brain from doing/planning to observing/learning.
Self-Leadership Is the New Secure Attachment
Just like the word “good,” rating your relationship on the scale of secure and insecure can sometimes be a trap. It’s time to move the goal posts.